Be a little crazy

born-for-more_newIf you think of all the reasons you shouldn’t, you never will. There are too many logical reasons why you shouldn’t venture out and pursue the life you want.

The number one reason: You are going to look a little crazy.

First of all I don’t  think most people pay as much attention to us as we may think. And the ones that do……if they weren’t critiquing you, they would be critiquing someone else. Its what they do, it helps them feel warm and fuzzy inside. Be glad you could be of service.

Intelligence is often measured through abstract reasoning/thought. When you think in abstract ways you move beyond the “here and now”….and are able to draw something more to a situation. You think creatively. You see different methods and more options. You are not limited.

Some people call this crazy.

I call it genius.

Moving beyond whats expected and willing to put yourself out there a little. Its not just enough to have a talent, or great ideas…you have to do something. You have to BE a little crazy instead of just think a little crazy. They may laugh at first…but later they will be asking what your secret is. You will have to tell them its ….”being a little crazy”.

 

 

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Move Beyond

“The Problem is not that we have too great concepts of ourselves that we cannot live up to; the problem is that our concepts of ourselves are too meager to let us be all that we were born to be

Prochaska & Norcross on Person-Centered Therapy

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It seems like a lot of people have an ego problem.  That a lot of people seem self absorbed, and not conscientious of those around them. However, I believe that most people don’t really know who they are. Regardless of how it may appear, very few people are confident and have much direction. They don’t understand what they are capable of, and the power that they have within them.

This power isn’t as simple and as boring as obtaining money or building a name for yourself. That’s simple. A lot of people have done that. And a lot of those people have died from substance abuse or suicide. What we were “born to be” goes way beyond certain cars or careers.

I think true confidence shows when you can move beyond issues pertaining to yourself and you gain a deep interest and respect for those around you. Its like when your child gets older and you feel more comfortable leaving them alone so you can do other things. You don’t run to their every sound at that point. You are confident that they are alright and you can place your focus on something else. This does not mean that you don’t love them, you just realize that they are not a baby anymore, and you trust them. When we are confident in who we are, we are okay with not having to have every material thing , every need met, every little hurt attended to….because we know that we are okay, and that there is a bigger task at hand.

We were made for more than attending to our own cries. We have greater potential than settle for an western view of success. We cheapen the act of serving and loving as if those were acts reserved for little old church ladies who have nothing else to do.

So that’s where I am at right now. I’m trying to move beyond little goals and small dreams that center around “me”. I want to be confident enough, to move beyond myself, and see a bigger picture. We were born to recreate and leave something behind. Cars, houses, clothes will be trash in the end. “All that we were born to be” moves way beyond these material things, and gives attention to those around us.

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Early Morning Logic

I get up early. A lot of people think this comes naturally for me. But it doesn’t.

But that’s not what this post is about.

This post is about that early morning conversation that I have with myself that I cannot trust. The one that says, “oh just this one time it doesn’t matter….” or “Go ahead…you deserve to sleep in…you had a long night”. Never trust your early morning logic.

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When things are hard, when emotions are intense…that’s not the best time to make a decision.

  • When you are in middle of your workout, that’s not the time to decide how long you will work out.
  • When you are in middle of a fight that is not the time to label your relationship.
  • When you just lost a client, or had a slow week, that’s not the time to decide the fate of your business.

Know what you stand for. Put it in writing. And do not waiver from what you decide when things get hard. When you are in middle of the “hard part” (waking up, working out, loving someone, serving, etc) you will tend to compromise.

Do not listen to that “early morning logic” it will tell you to do whats easy, not whats right.

 

*Flashback Friday * Originally Posted on June 9, 2014

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Yet.

Sometimes I have a tendency to look in my past…and kinda camp out there.

Sometimes its good, because I remember some really awesome events/relationships. And I enjoy remembering them. They are valuable memories. Other times, I camp out in regret. Wishing I hadn’t done certain things, or let go of  other things too easily.

You can kill yourself doing this. Literally. Regret…sucks. But NOTHING can change what is already gone. Nothing.

Even with good memories…you can unintentionally think that those “good times” are over. Like you can only enjoy your present by watching a rerun of what already happened.

However…If we decide to…

The best can be YET to come.

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The best relationships (or best version of a current), The best memories,  or experiences…

The best version of YOU…….is yet to come.

We have the power to change our circumstances, and our lives.

The past is nice to glance back at every once in awhile. But camping out there will cripple you. It will cause you to place less emphasis on NOW and I don’t want to regret doing that.

Time is too valuable. Our lives are too valuable. The best is yet…

 

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Grab a Pencil, and be Lead.

My pastor was talking about something Sunday that I wish the whole world could of heard.

If I would of had an extra megaphone lying around I would of handed it to him.

Yes, it was that good.

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How many times have we heard someone say, (or maybe said it ourselves..) that they need to “pray about something” or…”need to make sure that I am led”.

The following is not meant to discredit hearing from God, or being sensitive to His obvious “yes” or “no”s.  This is just to remember that He has already given us a big fat “YES” in His word.

He said…

Feed the hungry. Pray for the sick. Be friend the widow. Help the orphan. Forgive your mother. Give your coat. Give money to the poor. Make disciples. Share His message, Proclaim, Baptize,  Cleanse lepers, Cast out demons. Welcome strangers. Visit prisoners.

He said to go.

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So why do we not run with the green light that we have…and wait till He tells us no? Instead of waiting for Him to repeat what He has already said?

Do you think God will be upset if you sponsor a child from this organization instead of that one? Do you think He will curse you if you help a ministry or start one, without hearing an angel from heaven blow a trumpet?

We are afraid, so we act like He didn’t speak. But He did. We will be held accountable to that.

God will direct us  with specifics….when we start moving. We just need to be moving. It does not mean that you need to be apart of EVERYTHING. But it means you need to be apart of something. You need to be doing something.

You have your yes. You have your green light. You are led. Its called the Bible. And He says

“Go for it.”

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Monumental Potential.

    “Within a moment there is monumental potential. That is the mystery of a moment. It is small enough to ignore and big enough to change your life forever”

-Erwin Raphael McManus (Seizing your Divine Moment)

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    It’s easy to think that what you do today doesn’t matter. You can skip the gym this one time.You can not put forth the effort and take “an easy day” (just this once). You can ignore…..just for a minute what is inside of you to do.

    But today matters.

    There are repercussions for the little things, not just the big ones. Your day today, has monumental potential. You will sell yourself short of the end goal if you do not value and place emphasis on the small steps that it takes to get there.

Flashback Friday: Originally Posted on May 23, 2014

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Listen to Hear

Not to respond.

Its something that I have been working on. And will probably continue to work on for awhile (haha). But I want to value what people are saying without feeling like I have to “contribute” something.

Sometimes hearing them is the best contribution you can give.

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Really hearing their heart. What they are truly trying to say even

….if the words aren’t coming out perfect.

Its so easy to think about what we want everyone to be for us

…..without considering what we should be for them.

Listen to hear. 

 

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Feministic

I feel like everywhere I turn there are woman protesting how “strong they are” and how much they “don’t need men”.  A lot of these gals call themselves “feminists”…but to me they are the furthest thing from. They are not promoting equality. They are promoting superiority. 

-This post may not be my most popular-

Thou hath been warned;))

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I don’t see how celebrating your gender, and believing in your own strengths and ability would detour you from actually……being female. Its like saying you are proud to be an American and detest everything patriotic.

Their logic is, “We are strong…so treat us like a man”. If women are really strong, why not treat us like women?

They also say…….”Men, we don’t need you, we can do your job for you”.

Nope. We can’t. We need men to stand up…and be there for their families, to take charge, and be real men. Not these passive, children abandoners that we have created. We emasculate them and then complain that there are no good men in the world

…..how could there be?

If you are truly for women, you would capitalize on the unique strengths given specifically to women. No, this isn’t always staying  at home with an apron (although there is NOTHING wrong with that). This could be being a CEO, or an artist, or a politician. Its not that we cant be something…its our attitude getting there that sucks.

There is nothing wrong with a man holding a door open for you. Its called being a gentleman. We have men raping, verbally abusing, beating women….and the few who have enough honor and respect to open doors and treat a woman like a lady…we take offense to that?

And a man SHOULD help move and carry things. Could we do it? Yes….but that’s their way of honoring us, not putting us down. In a world where men  are getting lazier and lazier… we should celebrate the men who take that initiative, instead of putting them down.

And being nice to men, and admitting that we need them is not being weak….its called being a decent human being.

So its not a question of “can’t”…its a question of honor and respect. We want men to honor and respect us. Sure, we should. But if our respect only comes at the expense of disrespecting them….we are actually showing how weak we are, not how strong. Its like a bully on the playground who can only get their power from weakening others.

You do not become stronger by tearing men down. And constantly doing so, and constantly letting them know how much you don’t “need them”…is showing how insecure you really are.

We do need them. And they need us.

I’m tired of dads leaving their kids. I am tired of men not having jobs, and no passion for their life. Its not all the women’s fault……but we do have a share in it.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       And finally……

As women there is nothing wrong with nurturing, loving, and caring. Why do we not see that as powerful and strong? Is that ALL we are? No. But why are those characteristics  see as shameful?

Having the ability to completely transform the hearts and souls of those around us through our intuition and insight…is that not powerful? Having the ability to extend grace and show passion through our words and our demeanor…..is that not strong? Men don’t have those gifts.

So, no. I don’t want to be a man. 

I like being a woman. I like my unique contributions to this world, and I believe embracing that instead of shunning it is what a true “feminist” should be.

I’m done:)

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Taking a Step Back and Remembering Why

I don’t know if anyone has noticed….but I am kind of driven.

love medieval war movies and think it would be awesome to conquer the world some how.

I’m still working on the details for that one.

Although I do not want to change who I am (I believe I am this way or a reason). I want to make sure that I maintain balance and remember why I want to do certain things.

The whole point of it all is to place love and value on people.

And hopefully make a difference in someone’s life.

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It’s easy to say that “one day” when I have millions I will give millions.

But as thousands slip through our hands throughout the year are we still giving?

“When things slow down I would love to volunteer somewhere, …to serve”

When will things slow down? When we retire?

It’s good to want to do big things, I defiantly want to. But “big” things are made up of a whole lot of little things. Am I loving the person right in front of me….right now?

Am I giving when I see a need? Right now?

We are not guaranteed tomorrow. Do not wait to become who you want to be. Be faithful in the little now, place value in this moment, with these people….right in front of you.

I read this this morning,

“You may want to know your calling. Let this be your call: comfort a sad woman. Comfort a mourning child. Comfort a dying man. Comfort.” -Heidi Baker

Although I hope to one day do big great things, I have to remember all the great “little” things now. I believe that these little things heaven rejoices over and brings true glory to Jesus.

Flash Black Friday: Originally Posted on June 2, 2014

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Trust without Borders

I attended a ceremony last night unlike any I have ever been to.

I heard young parents devote their love and devotion for God through a memorial service honoring their baby.

They said trust was a choice.

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I am so moved by that. Thinking about the parameters that I place around God.

I trust You with “this” God….but not here…not with that.

Abandoned love is throwing those parameters out. Not seeking a cookie cutter life. Not selling our souls for what we understand or approve of. Not being preoccupied with what we can control and receive glory from.

But accepting and trusting Him in all things. In everything. Especially when we don’t understand. Letting Him have control, letting Him have glory.

We so often try to lead people to Jesus through persuasion and logic- What they can get out of it. When they only sustaining message is that of devoted love. 

I’ve had to ask myself a few hard questions. And I have a LOT that I need to work on. I need to except the mystery of God, something that I have yet to do in my life.

Real love and trust come without borders.

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